Bahamas and the science of speech

This week i had to go on a business trip, so i spent 5 full days in Bahamas....

I know most of you will find the picture very inviting, but i promise the journey was 13 hours (and i must admit it did take its toll) and really it is not my cup of tea, not the place i would ever choose to spend some holiday time.
Bahamas was very strange, a bit depressing, the resort is super luxurios and just outside its door people houses are falling apart and they are boarded up.
The work side was quite intense, but mostly i have to report that on Wednesday night after coming back from the beach party and i was lying down on my bed relaxing....and i think i felt the baby kicking, not moving ( we are way past moving) but i had the impression it was a proper kick, the ones you feel on your hands; but it could have been just my impression.

Also a couple of things that i will take away from the trip are:

n.1 i really do not like resorts
n.2 Bahamas is really USA a little more tropical...

and n.3
gaining 4 kilos in the first 5 months does not make you look pregnant... not even a bit overweight...
So in case you find yourself over there and find your hormones are taking control avoid at all costs talking to your bump
Not even if you are in the toilets, or on the beach, or in any public area as you will nott be looked upon with tenderness, nor cuteness....
example
I got very emotional a couple of times while looking at families and missing Richard so i did talk to the bump; saying things like
"Yes I miss Daddy too" and hormonal crap like that ...
and what happened?
I was told
(by a woman, no other)
to stop drinking so early in the morning and when i responded that i was pregnant and i was talking to my baby she looked at me, looked at my tummy and muttered somethinglike "yeah Right"
i moved up from drunkness to madness... and she just moved away shaking her head..
i was looking like this more or less (could not take pictures of me at the pool as i was alone) don't i look a little bit pregnant?